Ending in Disappointment vs. Fulfillment
HAPPINESS
Often ceasing with disappointment
INSPIRATION
Ceasing feeling fulfilled and recharged
When we’re happy, we don’t want it to end. Of course we don’t! But this sets us up for disappointment.
Inspiration, on the other hand, has a built-in end, so your expectations are set accurately from the beginning. You know there will be an end to your ride, project, meal, and so on, but because you know there will be an end, you are more in the moment and less concerned about how long it will last. In fact, you’re probably not analyzing it at all because you are so present in the moment. You might even celebrate the end of being inspired as an accomplishment, whereas with happiness you may find yourself unfulfilled and disappointed.
Happiness Example: I’ve had such a tough week. I think I need a shopping spree to feel better! I’m so happy I bought all that stuff I wanted! Except I don’t really feel better now and I racked up my credit card. I guess that shopping spree wasn’t enough. I don’t know what will ever be enough.
Inspired Example: I just finished that book and it was so good! I’m still thinking about the plot twist. I’m going to tell my friend how good that ending was!
Inspired Example 2: Wow, I just finished that race! I feel so alive! I’m going to go celebrate! I’m not even thinking about if or when I’ll do my next race because I feel so fulfilled by that experience!
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